Soo...I am super structed (or at least i try to be)......my dd is 3 1/2 years old and she LOVES to do those little preschool workbooks from Walmart <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/redface.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Embarrassment"> ...I never pay much attention to waht she can and can not do on the pages but should I? What is she supposed ot know at this age? ABC's? Counting, Addition? I have no idea how to tell if I am challenging her enough..thanks for your help on this.