I have quite a few carriers - a wrap, a pouch sling, a ring sling and an ergo but the wrap is my favourite at the moment. My DD is 12 weeks and quite long. She has great head control. She doesn't like facing in and I've tried facing her out which she likes but I don't (I don't like not seeing her face). The most comfortable position for both of us seems to be a kind of modified cradle hold where she's sitting up almost straight with her right side against my body and legs tucked up. I looked for instructions for this hold to try to get tips on the the best and safest way to do it but I can only find cradle hold for newborns where they are lying down. Does anyone else use this hold? Does it have a name? Is there any reason not to use it?