okay so my son g has autism..my daughter c,9 months,does not..as far as i can tell. much dif. as a babe even than ds was..BUT..how much eye contact should i expect from her?? she will look at my eyes but none of that stare at you deeply forever type thing..to be honest i dont know how my babe should act exactly..ive never raised a baby that didnt have autism,only my son before her so im not sure what im looking for here. soooo..help..what is your 9 month old like??