Alright, I want your totally outright, in-your-face opinions on the following subject matter:
My hubby and I have a great relationship; problem is, he's kind of insecure. When we met seven years ago, he didn't even want me hanging out with my guy friends
He claimed that any guy who is "friends" with a girl would jump at the first chance of "being with her", and that that was fact, end of discussion. So, being immature, I dropped my few guy friends to be with him.
Well, it's seven years later, and a guy who I innocently "dated" waaaay back in middle school sent me an e-mail!
He wanted to know what I was up to, how I was, etc. I wrote him back, told him I'm happily married with two kids, blah, blah, blah. He then told me how great it would be if we could meet up for coffee sometime, catch up, chat about the old days, whatever.
So now I feel like I'm stuck... first of all, my hubby and I share the same e-mail acct., so I deleted the messages so he wouldn't get upset. (Is this totally deceitful?) Now I really want to (innocently) meet up with this old friend.... you don't really keep in touch with many people from middle school, ya know?.... but I know hubby would go through the roof! No, he's not a violent, scream and yell type, but he would get very upset and just totally not understand why I'd want to go meet an old GUY friend.... I know he'd say no.... I know I'd say "uh, you are NOT my master..."
So my question for you ladies is... what would I then decide? Hey, you don't own me, and I will do what I damn well please? Or, well, you are my lifelong partner, and if it makes you feel uncomfortable, I just won't do it?