Even though the back slide started before your new baby arrived, I'm sure your dd sensed the change. She's still pretty young, my dd didn't even start to think about potty training until about 2 1/2. We had a few accidents, but not many. Each morning, I would ask her if she wanted a diaper or panties. If she said panties, I told her to remember to tell me when she had to go to the bathroom, but if she had an accident, it was no big deal. She ended up being harder on herself than I was for accidents, but if she had a lot, I told her she would need to wear a diaper b/c ds was born when dd was 23 mos old and I couldn't spend all time cleaning up accidents. She seemed to understand that pretty well.
If you start taking away privledges, I would worry that you could get into power struggles and that could be very unhealthy if dd starts withholding.
If you start taking away privledges, I would worry that you could get into power struggles and that could be very unhealthy if dd starts withholding.