What to do with baby?

Hmmm. One of the most frustrating things about being a SAHM is *not* doing anything else. I think babies are wired such that they are meant to be in a sling while mom actually works! "Continum Concept" teaches that during the "in arms phase," baby is meant to observe activity, work, play and human interactions from a place of safety and security. Radical idea, huh? I found it easier with my 2nd baby -- we were all more content with baby riding along against my chest while I coordinated activities for his big brother, played games with him, cleaned my house, fixed meals, etc.... I wish there were a way for me to go to a job regularly with my children along.

I do suggest long walks everyday. The baby will enjoy it, and it will do wonders to keep you sane.

If you have transportation, you could go to the park or the mall and give her the oportunity to alternate between snoozing, napping, and observing busy people. That would be great for her!

You could research volunteer options. When my ds#2 was small enough to sling, I volunteered a few hours a week at the birth center, doing paperwork and laundry. Heh. Kind of fun for the clients to come in for prenatals and find the receptionist (me)breastfeeding at her desk!

I know it takes resources and energy, but I really think you should get out everyday! Good luck.

I recommend the book Baby Play, which is published by the Gymboree people. I was worried that this might be commercial, but it's refreshingly down-to-earth. It has many neat ideas for games and songs. Most of the games are based on body awareness or using things around the house. The book is well-organized by age-group and also includes a section for 0-3 months.

Ds also really loved the Gymini--we have the b&w activity mat. We attached a Lamaze mirror to the underside of the top, and hung toys that were came with a Lamaze portable mobile (soft cats and dogs that were easy to swat or grasp). I think that kind of floor play helped his coordination and later his ability to reach and grasp.

And definitely get out and walk around! Don't worry about her sleeping during the day in the sling. At that age, they need plenty of sleep, and infant sleep experts say that daytime sleep does not detract from nighttime sleep. In fact, if she is well-rested she will sleep better at night. Small infants can't stay awake for more than 2 hours without getting overtired.