So my 18 almost 19 month old dd is beginning to be hell on wheels and I seem to be coming up short.It is so hard when there are so many inconsistencies as far as grandmas,grandpas aunts and uncles etc....I am trying so so hard to handle our little gem ( :LOL ) with GD but what if there is nothing to distract her with....what if she is sooo string willed that she WANTS to throw wooden blocks at dd #2 and NOT a ball etc.....and what am I to do when she CONTINUOUSLY pulls my sweet itty bitty dd#2's wittle hair and makes her cry SOOO hard? When do you mamas say NO and how? Also she is beginning to hit-even her mamaw which she loves soooo much-I mean she has swatted at me but NEVER her MAMAW!!!I need help mamas!!!!I AM kind but firm,consistent yet understanding all of those things and she IS exploring and learning and all of that wonderful stuff BUT.......HELP!