i didn't sign up for the spotlight thread & rarely read it. i don't know why!? i just have limited time & would rather read the other stuff (not that i don't want to get to know you all). but....now that the babies are coming & things are seeming more real, i feel like i missed out on something. i'm tempted to go back & read everyone's individual threads!? who else hasn't been part of this over the months? am i the only one?