Definately DH.
I pride myself on being able to "control" my moods in the name of keeping "peace" in the family.
I do "have" moods, but they would not swade DH one way or another (maybe make him more irritated if he already was somewhat...). But in our house the proverb goes like this - "If Papa isn't happy ain't nobody happy"...
If he IS in the good mood, he tries to get everybody in good mood, and often it's not that hard for him because we ARE happy to get a break from his moodiness...
I pride myself on being able to "control" my moods in the name of keeping "peace" in the family.
I do "have" moods, but they would not swade DH one way or another (maybe make him more irritated if he already was somewhat...). But in our house the proverb goes like this - "If Papa isn't happy ain't nobody happy"...
If he IS in the good mood, he tries to get everybody in good mood, and often it's not that hard for him because we ARE happy to get a break from his moodiness...