So I had my baby shower this weekend and it was great. I loved seeing everyone and had a great time and just enjoyed it. But now I'm faced with a mountain of clothes almost all in 0-3 mos range of which I already had a ton of. I'll probably end up donating a bunch of it to charity. While I am super grateful that people were so generous I am just at a loss as to why everyone completely ignores registries. We had about 80 people at the shower which is an absolutely crazy amount for a baby shower but my MIL knows a ton of people and DH is an only child and this is her first grandchild so she went a little overboard to say the least. But anyway of those 80 people 7 actually bought me things I had registered for. So now I have all these clothes but no cloth diapers, no carrier, no stroller, no crib sheets, no crib, etc. We can afford to buy the other stuff so I don't mind that at all, I just feel bad because I feel like people wasted their money. Of course they'll never know they did because I acted thrilled with every baby outfit I unwrapped but I'll still feel guilty that the majority of it will be given away.