With prayer I think
I have the same issue with how to get dd to stop feeding the dogs everything she has--she loves it, thinks it's hilarious and if I yell at the dogs she cries (that and the poor dogs are being yelled at for accepting something given to them in the same way I give them things)
Basically.....I have no friggin idea!!!
It bugs me that Bedlam still licks the inside of Havoc's mouth, she's incessant with it, but I have to allow it since in other areas she's in the process of overthrowing her old papa and taking over.