Here goes. I have 3 amazing boys! My husband and I are planning another baby and we would like to have a girl. We do NFP but have not been practicing for years because my lactation amenorrhea is sufficient. I have been watching for the return of my fertility. Just checking mucus and the cervix.... we do EC and I am up 2,3 or 4 times a night so I am thinking my temps might be more confusing than helpful. So.... I have heard theories about choosing genders... is this complete nonsense? I was thinking I might as well try.... can't hurt anything. Any opinions on what "works."