So what does squishy mean exactly? I tried checking mine the other day after having lots of really uncomfortable contractions. I thought I couldn't find it, but then I realized that this thing RIGHT in front and low, that I thought was my g-spot sticking out more than usual, was my cervix. And it's open just like a fingertip or two. But it's really, really soft it basically feels like everything else in there. Does that mean it's effaced?