I had something happen the other day that just really got me <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/hopmad.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hopping mad"> . My dd sees her father and his family once every other week or so. They just don't have that much to do with her and don't call me hardly at all to see her anymore. (He is also months behind on CS.) Anyway, on Sunday I brought her over to their house and left her for 2 hours. (Her father lives with his father and brother.) As you can see by my signature, we are vegetarians. However, dd is only 17 months, so she cannot speak to turn down meat. I packed her some snacks and soymilk that they could give her if she wanted it. (Snacks like kiwi and mini corn on the cob) Well, when I arrived to get her they were discussing how they are purchasing an expensive new collar for their dog that will give him an electric shock every itme he barks. Which annoyed me. Then I notice that dd is eating a cracker of some sort and am informed by her father that they gave her a Chicken in a Biscuit cracker to eat. I said "Are you serious?", thinking that they might be kidding me. They said sorry and told me that they didn't think that it had actual chicken in it. I left quickly, fuming. And now it is Tuesday and I haven't heard anything from them. I know this isn't a huge deal to some , but I am wondering if they purposely tried to get me riled up. And even if they actually thought they were meat-free, they have horrible judgement to feed a little girl such an unhealthy thing, when she had a whole lunchbag of healthy snacks with her.