I went through a zillion positions. I started feeling pushy a little too early - I think I had a small cervical lip I was pushing against b/c after my MW checked for it, I felt a million times better. I tried:
Squatting in the tub
Kneeling in the tub
Sitting on the toilet
Sitting on the floor, leaning back
Side-lying
Supported deep squat
On knees with upper body on birth ball
On knees on the floor with upper body on the bed (basically hands & knees, but more comfy
)
Only the last one felt right, which is too bad it took me so long to get to it - the only reason I didn't earlier, even though I wanted to be bent over like that, was because there were 4 people watching me and I felt self-conscious about having my booty in the air! Silly, I know. Finally, my MW asked me to flip over because she was having a hard time finding DS' heart tones with me in a semi-reclined/sitting position on the floor. After I got on my knees, I found my inner lioness and *literally* roared him out. Despite the position and not pausing at all at the shoulders, I only got a 3-stitch 1st degree labial tear!