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#1 ·
Hi! I don't think I have ever posted in this forum (I hope I put this is the right place) and this is super long, but here goes...

We currently live in the city. The house we live in has almost all hardwood floors and plaster walls. The kitchen is brand new, etc, etc. It is really nice, because we remodeled it. It was intended to be a flip for us, but we ended up staying for 2 years now. The downside is the backyard is terrible. The neighborhood is, too. We co-own the house with my in-laws and they have no desire to do any more work to the house, so we are kinda stuck. I would love to sod the yard and make it better to play in for my kids, but since we co-own, the decision is not completely in my hands, unless I want to pay for all of it.

My husband recently got promoted to a position where we know he will be transferred within the next year. So, we know that we are gonna have to sell at some point. So, we decided to start looking into rentals.

We looked at one place that is in the country (clean air), has well water and a spring, has 12 acres, has neighbors who keep and train horses, is in a much safer neighborhood, etc, etc. However, the downfall is that the house is a very old modular. It has carpet and an old kitchen. It is just not pretty inside. The looks wouldn't matter so much if it weren't for the fact that I can't get it out of my head about how bad carpet is for you (I have terrible allergies) and don't most modulars, at least old ones, have a lot of toxic construction "stuff"?

My big question is, Is it worth it to move to a "toxic" house for 8-12 months, even though the setting is perfect? Or should we stay in our "non-toxic" house where the setting is way less than perfect? I just don't know all of the risks involved with that kind of construction. I hope I didn't offend anybody. I am not judging the people who own or decorated this house, I just want to make an informed decision for my family.

TIA

Jamie
 
#2 ·
By modular, do you mean a trailer or a manufactured home similar to a double-wide? I ask the question because I worked within this industry for many years and there is a difference construction when comparing a manufactured (trailer or double-wide) to a modular home.

A manufactured home is built and transported to the site on a wheeled chaise. Trailers and double-wides fall into this category and yes, these homes typically contain more plastic and unnatural building materials. In general, the quality of construction is not as good as a traditionally built or modular home.

If you are talking about a true modular home, the building materials are very similar to conventional stick built construction and shouldn't have any more (or less) toxic or undesirable products than your average stick-built home.
 
#3 ·
Given the circumstances you describe, I would move. Location, location, location ... can't fix a neighborhood, can always fix a house.

As for the carpet - If it's old it has already off-gassed. Concerning your allergies (which, btw, I have too), buy a good carpet cleaning machine and use it before you move in and every time else you think the carpet is retaining dirt. I inherited carpet when we moved in and was grossed-out by the thought of what might be in it. But, once I cleaned it, I felt much better about living with it. I scuff across the carpet with white socks, and they're still white when I'm done. There are eco-friendly carpet detergents and a little boost from OxiClean for the first cleaning will kick-up the cleaning capacity. You'll be horrified the first time you clean it. Be prepared to do it slowly and more than once.

I still hate carpet, but I can now live with this until we can afford to change it.

Whatever you decide, best of luck.
 
#4 ·
The owner said...it is a manufactured home, as big as a double wide. So, yeah, it is much more like a trailer and inside, it looks like a trailer. YKWIM? It just has the same feel and look to it as a trailer does. I grew up around trailers, not actually in one, but many family members had them, and it is just like it.

BTW, the carpet is actually semi-new. He said 3 years old and looks pretty clean. So, I don't know how long it takes for the carpet to off-gas, but I thought I read something about it somewhere and 3 years doesn't seem long enough. Maybe I am wrong?
 
#5 ·
Well if you are planning on moving anyways especially within a year I wouldn't move. Not into a trailer. Any money or work you put in it would be wasted b/c trailers don't build equity like houses do. Plus the resell value of a trailer is going to be low. The house could always be resold, a trailer not so much. You'd have a harder time selling it than the house.
 
#6 ·
In your shoes I would focus more on how I would feel living in the new house vs. the current house. For me, I really care about feeling settled and comfortable in a house, and feeling safe -- and the house itself contributes more to that feeling than the neighbourhood, though both are important. So I wouldn't move. There may be health issues with the building materials, etc. - but it's very difficult to weigh these against the possible health and emotional benefits. If I otherwise clearly wanted to move, I probably wouldn't be stopped by the hypothetical/uncertain nature of the building materials, especially for a limited period. But I also am pretty sure that in your shoes, I would want to stay put...
 
#7 ·
I think I would stay put. The market isn't so great right now, and in a year it could pick up a lot, or at least stabilize, which means more $ for you and selling your house quicker. You could list it now and it may sit on the market for a year with the way the market is now.
 
#9 ·
Thanks for all the replies
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I believe we are gonna stay put. I kept thinking about how my kids would react to moving twice in a year vs. one time in a year. Regardless of building materials and such. On top of that, I believe I may have convinced my in-laws to do something about this yard of ours. Probably because their grandkids would be farther away from them...anyways, thanks again.