Hello, I am new here and real glad that there is a spot to post topics such as this. Hopefully somebody may be able to give me some insight into this. My son is 19 months old and I had him circumcised when he was just born. Yes, I know most people in here are against that and are for keeping their sons intact. I totally respect that and wish I had done that now as well. I don't want any arguments, I just want some insight. So, here is the situation.
After the circumcision, he developed adhesions. To make matters worse he also has an "innie" penis. I believe they call them either a concealed or buried penis. Usually overweight children will have that because of a fat pad by their groin. My son on the other hand is very, very thin but he still has this pudgy fat by his groin area. So, because of his penis going inwards, the extra skin started to adhere to the glans. The female pediatrician said nothing was wrong that that was normal looking. I took him to a male pediatrician and he said that indeed the skin had adhered. Well he manually pulled the skin back and caused a great deal of pain and bleeding. I don't want to go through that again. Unfortuneately, the skin began to adhere again and now here we are with him being almost 19 1/2 months and he still has adhesions.
I did call the Urologist office and one of the nurses told me that there is nothing to worry about that in time the skin will just pull away on it's own. My newest pediatrician said the same thing, that in time it will pull away from the glans and that everything will be fine. I can't help but worry though. Plus, his penis just doesn't look normal with it all being inside the fat pad like that. It just looks so small! The nurse at the Urologist office said that a lot of babies and toddlers look like that and that it looks like a turtle and in time he will grow into it. He does have a lot of extra skin though. When the OB did the circumcision she left a lot of skin. I guess they call that a loose circumcision.
Anyways, I was just hoping that some of you may be able to console me on this. I am just worried sick that his penis will never stick out and look normal or that the skin will never pull away from the glans. I don't want him to have another circumcision. I regret having it done in the first place.
Also, the glans doesn't seem that big either. It's probably because the skin is stuck to it. I can only see the "ridge" of the penis very slightly on the top but the rest is stuck around it. I remember when my son was at daycare and the other baby boys seemed to have larger penises with larger "mushroom" like glans. My sons penis just seems so odd because of how it goes inward and how the skin is adhering around it. Both my husband and the pediatrician say that everything is fine though.
Can anybody please give me some insight into how to handle this? Thank you!
P.S. By the way, I pull the skin back during diaper changes and put Vaseline on him twice a day around the glans area. When can I expect the adhesions to begin to break apart from the glans? The pediatrician said give it time because the foreskin on the intact boys doesn't retract until much later. I guess I am just impatient and since he had a circumcision I just want that extra skin to release from the glans.
After the circumcision, he developed adhesions. To make matters worse he also has an "innie" penis. I believe they call them either a concealed or buried penis. Usually overweight children will have that because of a fat pad by their groin. My son on the other hand is very, very thin but he still has this pudgy fat by his groin area. So, because of his penis going inwards, the extra skin started to adhere to the glans. The female pediatrician said nothing was wrong that that was normal looking. I took him to a male pediatrician and he said that indeed the skin had adhered. Well he manually pulled the skin back and caused a great deal of pain and bleeding. I don't want to go through that again. Unfortuneately, the skin began to adhere again and now here we are with him being almost 19 1/2 months and he still has adhesions.
I did call the Urologist office and one of the nurses told me that there is nothing to worry about that in time the skin will just pull away on it's own. My newest pediatrician said the same thing, that in time it will pull away from the glans and that everything will be fine. I can't help but worry though. Plus, his penis just doesn't look normal with it all being inside the fat pad like that. It just looks so small! The nurse at the Urologist office said that a lot of babies and toddlers look like that and that it looks like a turtle and in time he will grow into it. He does have a lot of extra skin though. When the OB did the circumcision she left a lot of skin. I guess they call that a loose circumcision.
Anyways, I was just hoping that some of you may be able to console me on this. I am just worried sick that his penis will never stick out and look normal or that the skin will never pull away from the glans. I don't want him to have another circumcision. I regret having it done in the first place.
Also, the glans doesn't seem that big either. It's probably because the skin is stuck to it. I can only see the "ridge" of the penis very slightly on the top but the rest is stuck around it. I remember when my son was at daycare and the other baby boys seemed to have larger penises with larger "mushroom" like glans. My sons penis just seems so odd because of how it goes inward and how the skin is adhering around it. Both my husband and the pediatrician say that everything is fine though.
Can anybody please give me some insight into how to handle this? Thank you!
P.S. By the way, I pull the skin back during diaper changes and put Vaseline on him twice a day around the glans area. When can I expect the adhesions to begin to break apart from the glans? The pediatrician said give it time because the foreskin on the intact boys doesn't retract until much later. I guess I am just impatient and since he had a circumcision I just want that extra skin to release from the glans.