I'll try to be brief
I'm around 40w5d, no dilation/effacement/anything like that. I have planned for an hbac but DH is starting to be not on board with that. We have a CNM with hosp privileges who has OBs backing her. I love the CNM but hate the obs, so a little while back I found our CPM who I had planned to do the hb with.
Yesterday I had an NST with the CNM and it was fine. We've been wondering about position so today I had a u/s and yes the kid is head down.
Here's the catch - got an AFI of 4.7 (5 is the low end of normal). There are some calcifications on the placenta. The back-up doc wanted to induce tonight... probably would have been around 11 p.m. The CNM said what if I did NSTs every day? Baby and mama are both fine at the moment, why rush to an induction with an unprepared cervix? Doc says there's no reason for me to stay pregnant. Well, if the baby is ok and my body isn't ready... doesn't that make 2 reasons?
Why in the world would you induce an unprepared mama this late at night? so your golf game or bbq on a holiday weekend doesn't get interrupted?
So I'm not so worried about the AFI but I wonder about calcifications. Aren't they pretty normal at the end? I know I don't want to stay pregnant forever so this show needs to get on the road soon, but is it a desperate rush? CPM doesn't seem to think it is either. I don't feel it is. CNM wants to wait too but has all of that doc pressure on her.
I wanted an hbac because I feel like that's the safest option - less intervention is best. But I'm trying to keep DH comfortable too, so I'll compromise. Our CPM will be our doula if we go to the hosp.
Comments? Suggestions? Brilliant ideas? I could use them
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I'm around 40w5d, no dilation/effacement/anything like that. I have planned for an hbac but DH is starting to be not on board with that. We have a CNM with hosp privileges who has OBs backing her. I love the CNM but hate the obs, so a little while back I found our CPM who I had planned to do the hb with.
Yesterday I had an NST with the CNM and it was fine. We've been wondering about position so today I had a u/s and yes the kid is head down.
Here's the catch - got an AFI of 4.7 (5 is the low end of normal). There are some calcifications on the placenta. The back-up doc wanted to induce tonight... probably would have been around 11 p.m. The CNM said what if I did NSTs every day? Baby and mama are both fine at the moment, why rush to an induction with an unprepared cervix? Doc says there's no reason for me to stay pregnant. Well, if the baby is ok and my body isn't ready... doesn't that make 2 reasons?
Why in the world would you induce an unprepared mama this late at night? so your golf game or bbq on a holiday weekend doesn't get interrupted?
So I'm not so worried about the AFI but I wonder about calcifications. Aren't they pretty normal at the end? I know I don't want to stay pregnant forever so this show needs to get on the road soon, but is it a desperate rush? CPM doesn't seem to think it is either. I don't feel it is. CNM wants to wait too but has all of that doc pressure on her.
I wanted an hbac because I feel like that's the safest option - less intervention is best. But I'm trying to keep DH comfortable too, so I'll compromise. Our CPM will be our doula if we go to the hosp.
Comments? Suggestions? Brilliant ideas? I could use them
