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Why do I even BOTHER going to bed...

317 views 4 replies 5 participants last post by  doclegs  
#1 ·
Ok, is anyone else experiencing incredibly strange and bizarre dreams? At this point I'm not even sure why I am bothering to go to sleep at all. They are all SO VIVID! It is like really being there and, by the time I wake up, it is like I didn't even sleep at all. There doesn't seem to be a consistent theme or even "feeling" to them.

Some are the most horrendous, terrifying nightmares I have ever had in my life (like cold sweat, heart palpitations, can't breathe, wake up screaming kind of nightmares). Some are so erotic they even make ME blush (and, seriously, I am not reserved in that department...ummm... at all). A few have been absolute bliss (most of those have been baby dreams and the feeling of happiness is utterly overwhelming). Some are just neutral, not really emotional... just there. Even those are incredibly vivid, detailed and life-like.

I know pregnancy can cause vivid dreams, and it did for me with DS and DD... but this seems like it is above and beyond normal. It has been going on since early in my first trimester. It is like someone plays movies in my head all night long, but even more real than that. It is starting to actually interfere with my sleep because I wake up exhausted!

Anybody else? Any suggestions? I've tried some crystals and lavender under my pillow but I'm close to resorting to counseling...
 
#2 ·
Night time/Sleepy time tea helped my dreams to subside...I'm still having some, but not as vivid as before. I totally know what you are talking about. I have woke emotionally spent quite a few times. That hasn't happened since I broke the cycle with the tea and now I forget it most nights and my dreams are still more mild.
 
#3 ·
The weird and vivid dreams started a few nights ago for me. Between that and the upper and lower back pain I'm having the worst time trying to sleep. It's getting ridiculous - I missed two days of work this week because I woke up sobbing because I haven't slept or am my back is so locked up I can barely move. UGH!

I think the hormones have kicked up a notch this week though, which I'm assuming can account for most of those symptoms. I'm ready to be comfortable again though... grrr.
 
#5 ·
I just started getting the strange, vivid dreams this week... so far they're just so bizarre that I haven't even tried to figure out why I'm having them! I did try to sleep in the big recliner last night (after fighting with my pillows to get comfortable in bed and giving up) and I didn't have any dreams while there, so who knows.